A Victim Impact Statement Regarding “Matthew Steven” of Newmarket, Penetanguishene, and Toronto, Ontario, Canada, Concerning Being Loverboy Groomed, Cyberstalked, Trafficked, Publicly Defamed, Intimidated, and Exploited for Ten Years

A Victim Impact Statement Regarding “Matthew Steven” of Newmarket, Penetanguishene, and Toronto, Ontario, Canada, Concerning Being Loverboy Groomed, Cyberstalked, Trafficked, Publicly Defamed, Intimidated, and Exploited for Ten Years

- Wednesday, July 22, 2015

The provided image below shows censored sample evidence of Matthew Steven and/or his “friends”—his word, not ours—cyberstalking my personal and business social media, as well as connections to family, friends, and clients, before I shared my name or business details. Despite my explicit request to keep our relationship strictly gaming-related, he ignored and pushed these boundaries.

He compiled a dossier, shared with undisclosed “friends,” to enable blackmail and sextortion via proxy with a false “cheating” narrative, completely resistant to correction, despite my husband’s repeated attempts to address it.

Transcripts confirm my consent to a polyamorous dynamic with my husband’s approval, which was misrepresented as infidelity privately and publicly for not providing the false alibi (repeat this lie or else we'll do it for you—which they did) until the first wave of destruction was done and I had been trafficked across international borders (according to the Action-Means-Purpose framework).

Non-compliance with demands to repeat the false alibi led to coerced capitulation from late 2015 to late 2019, causing over $1-million USD in reputational and financial damages, with approximately $400,000 USD in the first two years alone.

Law enforcement’s failure to file reports properly, investigate, or escalate to the FBI allowed the statute of limitations to lapse, enabling him and his network to evade accountability for my exploitation and trafficking to Canada under false pretenses and coercive control, leading to more damages in additional waves.

Victims cannot legally access court-ready evidence without law enforcement.

Due to evidence tampering and his refusal to correct the narrative or identify his “friends,” public awareness is critical for safety and self-defense, as all reasonable reporting avenues have been exhausted, and a lawsuit has been made impossible due to the long-term abuse.

A Victim Impact Statement Regarding “Matthew Steven” of Newmarket, Penetanguishene, and Toronto, Ontario, Canada, Concerning Being Loverboy Groomed, Cyberstalked, Trafficked, Publicly Defamed, Intimidated, and Exploited for Ten Years

The Fine Print and Disclaimers

Legal Disclaimer:

This statement, accompanied by redacted evidence, is provided to inform the public about matters of potential public safety and interest, consistent with protected speech under the First Amendment of the United States Constitution and Section 2(b) of the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms. For safety reasons, our specific location is not disclosed. The disclosure pertains to alleged conduct by Matthew Steven, a Canadian resident, also known by aliases such as “RedmenGoalie33” and “LedHeadRed,” and his alleged network, referred to by him as “friends,” with relevant events occurring in or impacting the jurisdictions of Toronto, Newmarket, and Penetanguishene, Ontario, Canada, and surrounding areas, and affecting us in the United States. It is alleged that Matthew Steven and his network engaged in defamatory conduct, including making false statements about infidelity, communicated both privately and publicly, with alleged reckless disregard for their truth or falsity. These actions are claimed to have caused significant harm to us, with alleged damages exceeding $1M, including losses to high-value assets, business interests, equipment, income, and costs associated with relocation. The alleged conduct is said to have been amplified by the misuse of public records to intensify harm, creating an inescapable abuse loop, track whereabouts, and perpetuating ongoing fear and distress, allegedly with the intent to coerce compliance and prevent us from fully disengaging from the situation and cooperating with law enforcement. Further allegations include ongoing cyberstalking, unauthorized dissemination of private and intimate information, including our location, to third parties without consent, both online and offline, as well as intimidation and financial harm. These actions are alleged to have stemmed from our refusal to corroborate false narratives, including false claims of infidelity, or to provide a false alibi following alleged blackmail and sextortion attempts by Matthew Steven’s network, acting on his behalf. It is further alleged that these actions constitute exploitation targeting an individual with autism, consistent with the Action-Means-Purpose framework under applicable Canadian and U.S. anti-exploitation laws, including Canada’s Criminal Code (e.g., Section 279.01 on human trafficking) and U.S. federal laws (e.g., 18 U.S.C. § 1591). We have pursued all reasonable legal routes privately to address these matters from 2015 to 2025, including, but not limited to: - Sending countless direct messages DMs to Matthew Steven demanding correction of the false narratives and cessation of the knowingly unwanted actions; - Documenting ongoing tampering with evidence used against us; - Engaging a lawyer to attempt service of legal documents, including privacy agreements, cease-and-desist notices, and restraining orders, through U.S. courts, with reported evasion of service by Matthew Steven; - Delivering a digital cease-and-desist notice on platforms where the alleged cyberstalking occurred. This disclosure is made in good faith, following reported refusals by Matthew Steven to retract the alleged false statements or provide restitution for the claimed damages stemming from his false narratives, despite private discussions involving legal representation. We assert that this statement is made to raise awareness of potential risks to others, and in self-defense given the severity of the alleged harm and the lack of resolution through private efforts over a decade. All claims herein are allegations, subject to verification through legal processes in Toronto, Newmarket, and Penetanguishene, Ontario, Canada, and surrounding areas, and potentially the United States. We reserve all legal rights and defenses under applicable Canadian laws, including Ontario’s Libel and Slander Act and Criminal Code of Canada, and U.S. laws, including federal and state privacy and cyberstalking statutes.